We are very proud to have eRedbook as one of four Oak sponsors for our event in Manchester on Thursday 6th October. In this blog piece they have interviewed one of the mums using eRedbook, Daniela Tanneberger, about being a mother, the difference between having your first and second child, and how the eRedbook helps her to manage her new baby’s health.
Daniela, mother to eight-year-old son Robin and three-month old daughter Emma, lives in Chessington. She’s originally from Germany and moved to the UK in 2015. As part of the London field test, her midwife told her about the eRedbook and she registered an account.
How was it for you to give birth in the UK, compared to your experience in Germany where you had your son?
I found the care system in the UK very different from the system in Germany, although I quickly adjusted. You get fewer check-ups and ultrasounds in the UK, but at the same time I’m not sure if all those appointments in Germany were really needed. Here you get a phone number and they tell you to call if something’s wrong, but you don’t really want to call. Once I did phone the maternity ward to rebook an appointment and was told by someone who sounded really annoyed that I should dial a different number. I was ready to tell them “Hey, I’m the pregnant lady, it should be me that’s emotional!” I was lucky that it was my second pregnancy and I was more comfortable.
Was pregnancy easier the second time around?
The second time was more relaxed. I knew what I had to buy, I didn’t waste time looking up the best buggy or buy stuff that I didn’t need. With my son it took me three months to find out that he liked the sound of the hairdryer as white noise. With my daughter I used the hairdryer straight away: she loves the sound as well and I use it to dry her off after a bath.
You are currently using the eRedbook to keep track of your baby’s health. What were your reasons for registering?
I use technology on a daily basis but I wouldn’t say I’m really into it – I’m not interested in the latest tablets or fitness gadgets. However, when my midwife told me about the eRedbook, I was immediately interested. The reason was that I travel all the time and I always lose paper documents. It’s much easier to have everything available online.
Would you recommend the eRedbook to other parents?
Yes, I definitely recommend the eRedbook to new parents, I absolutely love it. I’m terrible with paperwork, so I appreciate that I can log in to my daughter’s information now at all times.
The other day I spoke to my doctor and he complained that people are always late at appointments because they leave their red book at home and need to go back to get it. I told him that there’s no reason to be late as they can use the eRedbook with their smartphone. We all know how difficult it can be to get everything ready when you go to a doctor’s appointment; carrying the baby while scrambling to get the changing bag, dummy, car seat, etc. The eRedbook just makes it much easier.
What other advice do you have for new parents?
Trust your instincts. The guidance you receive sometimes seems really strict: ‘don’t use a dummy’, ‘do not co-sleep’, ‘do not spoil your baby’, etc. The truth is that it can be hard to maintain a strict routine, especially when you’re breastfeeding and your baby feeds on demand, and when your baby is not well it can be very comforting to let them sleep with you. You will get a lot of advice from family members and everyone means well, but different generations do different things. So trust your instincts and do what feels right to you.
Maddie Kortenaar interviewing Daniela Tanneberger